Two feminicides in 24 hours: Sara Campanella and Ilaria Sula are victims of patriarchal culture unable to accept a no

Sara Campanella, Ilaria Sula. One wonders the reason for two feminicides one after the other. That they were two in a few hours ago especially, of course, but this is not the point. The point is that they happened when we had said that they no longer had to be there, when we filled the mouths of the as and the classrooms of new laws.

It is not enough. We betrayed them, those two girls. And the other 9 that have been there since the beginning of the year 2025 (according to Istat, 150 women are killed every year).

From Giulia Cecchettin onwards it had seemed that there had been a turning point or, at least, that it tried to keep silent less and to speak moreof the patriarchate, of the upside down, wrong and financial vision, of certain boys and men, of what must be uprooted in the bowels of certain homunculi.

But no. In a script of films already seen (on the other hand – remaining in the film field – just the last successful Netflix series, Teenagenceit is precisely to them and to them that speaks), two students have not been considered worthy of living, thrown away as any refusal.

The life of those women, for those killers who hide behind the “good guys”, is less than nothing. Indeed, it does not exist. Just as there is no refusal, refusal, a denied look. What I face, people, the “no”, female freedom, for that masculine super ego that puts its toxic virility at the center of all.

Sara Campanella He was 22 years old, he studied biomedical laboratory techniques of the Polyclinic. Those who cut her throat was “only” an acquaintance unable to support the (legitimate) disinterest of Sara, a student of its own faculty. For two years the 27 -year -old boy had addressed “insistent and repeated attention to Sara Campanella”, which she would have told her friends several times.

Also Ilaria Sula He was a university student, at the Sapienza of Rome, and had been engaged to what would later become his executioner and who, after killing her, put the body inside a suitcase, found in a forest at the bottom of a cliff, near Poli. The neighbors turn an unheedable “a very good boy, son of talented people”.

But come on, how do you do not see that Does the list of women killed by those “unsuspected” men increase?

The debate on priorities in schools cannot be reduced only to the Bible and Latin. Whenever a femicide shakes our society, the need to deal with the theme of education in the classes of our children, those same people we grow up and who, too often, appear to be unrelated to a world that we thought of sharing.

Several research now tell us that one in three boy does not consider control over the freedom of others. The idea of ​​preventing new friendships, of imposing on partner what to wear, to constantly ask for information on the other’s position, is considered normal. From an early age, we are educated to a circle which is then very difficult to break if you do not acquire an awareness that is often imposed.

A no remains a no and cannot be seen as a mortification or an outrage. We teach our kids to go beyond stereotypes, we teach them respect and respect for other life. Nothing more.